Are Men “Better In Bed” Than Women? The Better Sleep Council Has The Data

The Better Sleep Council, the consumer education arm of the International Sleep Products Association (ISPA), released new data from a survey  which asked Americans about their sleep regimens. The research shows that men outperform their female counterparts when it comes to being well-rested, but both have room to improve.

Survey participants were asked about their bedtime habits and received a ranking based on sleep behavior best practices; positive behaviors included turning off electronics before bed, keeping a regular bedtime, etc. On average, Americans earned a grade of a “C-” (70%).  Averaging a 72%, men reported getting better rest and maintaining better sleep habits than the women who were surveyed. When researchers drilled down into specific habits that contribute to a good night’s sleep, they found that the data was consistent, throughout the survey, men reported that they practiced more positive sleep habits than the women surveyed. Results also took participants’ overall satisfaction with the quantity and quality of their sleep into consideration, with questions asking if participants regularly feel well-rested, if they are pleased with the amount of sleep they get, etc.

In addition to findings differentiating male and female sleep habits, the survey also reflected a shifting attitude toward sleep. “Over the past few years, the Better Sleep Council has noticed that people aren’t bragging about how little sleep they’re getting, they’re bragging about how much sleep they are getting. In fact, getting enough quality sleep is becoming a status symbol among Americans,” said Mary Helen Rogers, vice president of marketing and communications for ISPA. “Through our survey, we wanted to learn for ourselves – ‘how good is America in bed?’ Results from the survey found that Americans aren’t walking the talk.”

Differing Bedtime Habits Between The Sexes

 Women are particularly deficient when it comes to getting enough sleep: despite 84% of women believing sleep is important to their overall health and wellness, their bedtime habits and lifestyles have created barriers that prevent them from receiving the desired amount of sleep. The two areas where women particularly fell short were their ability to fall asleep and ability to rise in the morning. The survey revealed that 34 million women experience trouble sleeping and/or staying asleep almost all the time (21%), and nearly 20 million hit the snooze button numerous times every day (12%).

Loved ones also kept women up at night. Survey results found that more than 24 million women were likely to let kids and pets in the bed (15%), compared to 4 million men (3%).

According to the study, men were more likely to engage in positive sleep habits: 55 million men reported sleeping alone (35%), 22 million follow a strict bedtime – even on the weekends (14%), 35 million do not have caffeinated beverages past noon (22%), and more than 55 million keep their stress level to a minimum (35%).

Other Sleep Indicators

 Additional key sleep performance takeaways from the survey include:

  • 77 million Americans (24%) claim they have no electronics in their bedroom, not even a television.
  • 174 million Americans (54%) rarely/never drink alcohol before bed | For the 46% of Americans who reported drinking alcohol, it’s best to drink it in the early evening. Generally, it takes 1 hour to metabolize one ounce of alcohol, which can wreak havoc on sleep quality.
  • 193 million Americans (60%) have a mattress that’s less than 7 years old. | Experts advise you to evaluate your mattress after 7 years for wear and tear. An older mattress may no longer provide the comfort and support that is key for quality sleep. 

 Quality Sleep Is “In”

 Although the survey shows that there are areas where everyone can improve, the shift in the way Americans are talking about their own sleep habits is encouraging. Gone are the days of touting the lack of sleep Americans are getting – consumers want others to know just how good they are in bed, as it relates to sleep.

Capitalizing on this trend, the BSC has launched the Better in Bed campaign during Better Sleep Month to support this positive movement of consumers striving not just for more sleep each night, but for quality, restorative sleep as well.

“Better Sleep Month is the perfect time to engage consumers with entertaining and useful tips to up their game between the sheets,” said Rogers. “Throughout the month of May, the BSC will be providing sleep solutions, so everyone can brag about how good they are in bed and, most importantly, for everyone to sleep just a little more soundly.”

To learn more about Better Sleep Month, visit

*Based on the 2017 U.S. Census Bureau population estimate of 323,127,513 Americans.

 About the BSC: The Better Sleep Council is the consumer-education arm of the International Sleep Products Association, the trade association for the mattress industry. With decades invested in improving sleep quality, the BSC educates consumers on the link between sleep and health, and the role of the sleep environment, primarily through, partner support and consumer outreach.